Difference between loveshys and incels

lovablenerd wrote

sarieas wrote

What would you do with a 1-4 woman? I probably wouldn't get a hard-on.

vegeta2 wrote

i have gotten horny off really ugly girls before

these are probably the best summation of the difference between LS and incel in one conversation block I've seen.

It is fortunate for the ugly ones that there are plenty of Vegetas in the world... but I have to side with Sarieas here.

Well ugly girls still have it extremely easy because:

1)  There are a lot of guys who have a fetish for ugly girls  (like vegeta2)
2)  There are a lot of guys who are just extremely desperate and will take an ugly girl (like me)

The same logic applies to obese girls.

Hard to believe obese girls have it harder in the dating game than me since i find them so repulsive. If that's true, then it would make me feel better. It's still demoralizing, though, when some woman I wouldn't pay to sleep with gives me that dismissive, disgusted look that I'm so used to.

I'd also add that (I think) loveshys probably have some characteristics thought of as more common/pronounced in women, while incels are more 'purely' men in thought and mind.

Although, some people often have a black and white definition of what incel is and what Love Shyness is, the line is often blurred between the two and often overlap.