The problem with society isn't just women and feminism. It is a general breakdown of civilized behavior. The movie Falling Down portrays this well. I think this movie is a kind of a litmus test. Someone who relates to the main character is someone who can be reached because he intuitively understands that our society has gone bad. But someone who thinks the main character is a lunatic is someone who identifies with mainstream culture, and this person is simply a waste of time to talk to.
A man will tolerate a rotten society if he has his family. But without a family, he has no reason to put up with it. Feminist societies are designed to destroy families. And this is what caused the main character of this movie to snap.