Guys, what is your idea of the ideal woman?

Hi guys,  I am new here.  I will like to hear your idea of what you think the ideal woman should be like.

Feminine, kind, loving and nurturing, gentle, honest, caring and compassionate, and similar things. Being pretty is good too...but not important without the aforementioned things.

damsel wrote

Hi guys,  I am new here.  I will like to hear your idea of what you think the ideal woman should be like.

Out of curiosity, where are you from damsel? And what brings you here?

  Humanity said "Feminine, kind, loving and nurturing, gentle, honest, caring and compassionate, and similar things. Being pretty is good too...but not important."

Very apt answer, and a universally preferred one, too.

Drealm    Out of curiosity, where are you from damsel? And what brings you here?

I am from Florida, Sir Knight.  And to  see the male perspective brings me here.

damsel wrote

  Humanity said "Feminine, kind, loving and nurturing, gentle, honest, caring and compassionate, and similar things. Being pretty is good too...but not important."

Very apt answer, and a universally preferred one, too.

I should've mentioned faithfulness as well. That's a core part of the ideal woman also.

And...do you think those things I mentioned are universally preferred? I get the impression that many men here in the U.S. go for the bitchy, slutty, powerful/masculine, types of women, and don't really care that much for the qualities I wrote. I am repelled by those types, but mainstream men don't seem to have a problem with it for the most part, as far as I can tell.

damsel wrote

Drealm    Out of curiosity, where are you from damsel? And what brings you here?

I am from Florida, Sir Knight.  And to  see the male perspective brings me here.

I actually meant what website are you from? How did you hear about this forum?

"the male perspective".. Could you elaborate? Why the CoAlpha forums specifically?

Humanity, I think most men in the U.S. go for the feminine type, but some go for the pursuit, and the challenge that the "hard to get" woman presents.  But in the end they want her to submit.   But these virtues that you mentioned above is getting rarer these days in women in America.  American women are not invincible.  A woman's weakness is that she is going to run out of steam in her late thirties, so as it approaches, she gets insecure, and starts being more humble towards men she would have previously not paid attention to.  So, no man should feel defeated.

Drealm, I am not from any particular website.  I saw this site on the internet.  I have some sympathy for your cause.  "The male perspective" holds an interest to me.  CoAlpha specifically, because you guys have a direction and want concrete plans, while the others just seem to talk.

I have answered your questions, now, I want to ask you one.  What kind of women do you like?

As a generic answer.

Assume a woman had a knife strapped to her wrist.
Assume she was a good woman, however defined.

Would you trust her?
Tough call, but generally no. No one deserves that much trust.
Thats the social and biological reality we live in.

damsel wrote

Drealm, I am not from any particular website.  I saw this site on the internet.  I have some sympathy for your cause.  "The male perspective" holds an interest to me.  CoAlpha specifically, because you guys have a direction and want concrete plans, while the others just seem to talk.

I have answered your questions, now, I want to ask you one.  What kind of women do you like?

People don't stumble on this website. They mostly feed from a handful of other sites. This is why I was curious.

I look for religion, familial orientation and an inclination towards motherhood. All other desirable traits seem to evolve naturally as long as these virtues are secured.

Personally, I don't (have a type of woman I prefer). Too busy getting things done, generally speaking.

J.Donner, Most everyone has a type of woman who he gravitates to, if he plans to date, I believe.

Drealm, religion, family orientation and an inclination towards motherhood are solid values.  Can't go wrong there.  The christian religion, when practiced properly, makes for a good marriage, as it is gentle on women, and still gives man a chance to be true to his nature.

Ardia, I hope you meet a good woman in your life's journey.  There are some good women out there.