Hi there - I would like to join!

Hey there. I would like to join! First of all, let me say that I am Apparition from the love shy forum; I just wanted to change my username.

I've never really been a part of this modern culture and its depraved ways. I despise it. When I first saw the Co-Alpha Brotherhood linked in some signatures on the love-shy forum, and looked around this place, it resonated with me. This insane culture is completely hopeless. It is the problem, and not any of us. This is one reason I love the idea of this Brotherhood - not only does it realize this, but it proposes solutions instead of mere whining. Most groups are just for venting, or so-called "self-help," or just moping around bemoaning how hopeless one's situation is.

And another thing I love about this idea is that we aren't just here because society rejects us, or that we don't have girlfriends. Brotherhood, a sense of community, is vital! It is something that we must have. Mainstream society overemphasizes competition so much that cooperation is completely ignored. Men do need to trust each other, and help each other as the builders and sustainers of civilization. One huge reason mainstream society is so messed up is that men try to outcompete each other for the women, who only go for a small number of highly desired men anyway. Men only compete here, and the majority are left out in the cold, dehumanized, and often denied the right to have a mate and reproduce. When men cooperate, we have power. I see that this Brotherhood believes in, and I realize how vital it is!

I'm not the best at introductions, but allow me to tell some things about myself, some of which I hope will be of interest:

I homeschooled for much of my childhood. I only went to public school for a few years, and was homeschooled for the majority of growing up. The irony now is that I am certified to be a teacher in my state!

I went to college after, and like many guys, found absolutely no success in the dating game there. The few times I tried, I quickly realized all the bullshit involved. I spent a lot of time on the internet trying to figure out what my problem was, and what society's problem was. I didn't have much luck. By the time I did my student teaching and finished college, I was thoroughly disgusted by mainstream society. The superficiality, the foolishness, the thoughtlessness, the brutality.  It's still pretty hard to put into exact words.

But the point I'm to now is that I want a solution. Just some sense of community and Brotherhood. And of course, a girlfriend, a good woman to marry and have children with someday. I don't let go of my ideals. Even though I realize how ideas like this Brotherhood have the odds stacked against them, they are worth living for, and trying to make something of.

On the love-shy forum, I had noticed fschmidt's idea of going to a non-feminist country to look for a girlfriend/wife. I didn't think much about it at first, but I've begun lately to look into it. And now I find the idea very appealing. I am starting a job soon, and will save money, so I hope within a decade or so, I will be able to easily travel abroad to find a girlfriend.

I am very interested in fschmidt's plan for a matchmaking service for going into Mexico to find men girlfriends. For one thing, I find Mexican women very attractive, and I am also currently trying to self-teach myself Spanish. So I think Mexico is a very good option for me personally! Also, some day I would like to go to the Philippines as well. I find Filipinas attractive as well, and English is a main language over there, so it seems like a no-brainer to me.

Anything else you want to know, just ask. I hope I can be helpful, and I look forward to becoming a member of the community!

My thoughts on "Sexual Utopia in Power":

What becomes clear first is that nature imposes limits on the possibility of so-called "sexual utopias." Marriage is artificial, but needed to allow good men to mate and reproduce. Marriage is also need to create stability in society and to prevent the irrational desires of females from upending civilization. The thing that is so important about marriage (basically a society of enforced monogamy) is that it restrains the irrational desires of women from destroying the chances of good men to reproduce. Women will, left to their own devices, try to mate (and foolishly, also try to gain commitment from) a small group of men who are most attractive and appealing to them. This is a natural result of allowing "free sexuality" - the result would always be the same. A few men would get all the women. This is cannot be allowed in a state of civilization, or civilization will not last long. Female hypergamy must be controlled for a civilized society to exist and thrive.

We are seeing the effects of feminism and female hypergamy in society today. Marriage as an institution has been completed obliterated as a reasonable prospect for men. Women retain all of the benefit of it, whereas men are often punished by a wife who leaves him. Divorce laws assume female superiority for all issues in splitting up - not the least of which is child custody. Marriage is also little more than socially sanctioned prostitution - the institution has been robbed of its ability to create a sane and stable society. Men need to wake up more and more (and I believe they are) and look to other places in the world for finding a wife who is not brainwashed by feminism. The common-sense lesson to take away here is that allowing and rewarding bad behavior in society creates a bad society. So if men will increasingly look to marry girls from other areas of the world, this may not change anything at home, but it will at least save men from suffering from being married to a western woman.

The natural truth that males display and females choose shows that equality is not possible, and thus, is undesirable to try to create and enforce such an idea. Men are men, and women are women. This is just simple truth, and it cannot be changed, or criminalized away. Making normal, healthy male courting behavior into criminal behavior, such as is the case of "date rape" shows just how unsustainable and destructive feminism is, and how a society ruled by it is doomed to fail.

Hello and welcome! I don't think competition is necessarily a bad thing; in fact, there are ways to compete cooperatively. Might sound like an oxymoron, but the military does it all the time. Anyway, there's not too much action on the private forums...yet.

Thank you, and point taken. I know competition can be constructive or destructive. Competing to improve ourselves or the community is fine. But modern society seems to have stopped with constructive competition and cooperation entirely. I think when the mindset is we are competing with each other instead of competing against each other, then we are doing things right.