Hobbies interests are of vital importance to Incel/Loveshy men. Find something you can excel at. Find something that can be a means of self expression.
Not only does it serve as a useful diversion from 'the problem', but it also it makes you more rounded as a person. Nowadays, I don't think of myself as an Incel man who happens to be a photographer, but as a photographer who happens to be Incel. Psychologically, I find it to be a great help.
I belive that men and women have roles for which nature intended them for. I am not a relgious man, but I feel, that one cannot argue with nature.
I also feel that the 'femisphere' exists, is alive and well, and is toxic for the mental and emotional wellbeing of a person like me.
It's a fine state of affairs, when a guy has to join what amounts to a secret society to find some degree of rationalism on the internet.
Most of all, I feel cheated by society. I realise those of you who know me from Loveshy.com may have already formed your opinions about me.
But guess what?
That person on there is not me. Not really. He is like a halloween mask that I put on.
I yearn for a simpler time. A time when people were honest. Courageous. Decent.
All I want to do with what remains of my life is just two things. Take pictures and be happy.
Seems that those goals are not 'alpha' or 'hot' enough. I have no ambition other than to create my works of art. If I can contribute in any way to this place, I will. If I can help to make a difference, I would like to do that also.