I give up on American Womyn

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I give up on American Womyn

Moralmoe91
I know, shocker right? But seriously I am beyond done with American women. I have always liked the idea of going abroad to find a woman but since I haven't had the means to travel overseas I have tried to find a decent American woman and as most of you probably know it was a disaster.  What I discovered is American women are: lazy, immoral, dumb, sociopathic, and egotistical. They literally have no value outside of their looks and most of them dont even have that. They play games and arent serious about finding a decent man like me. A few weeks ago I went on a date with a girl and this experience ended up being the straw that broke the camel's back for me. I dressed nice, was smelling good and clean shaven, and had washed my truck inside and out before picking her up. When I picked her up she wasn't dressed nice and wasn't wearing any make-up or anything. Basically she didn't put any effort into looking good for me or putting her best foot forward, she was laziness personified. Furthermore she was a cold fish and pushed me away when I tried to put my arm around her in the movie theater.  And the icing on the cake is she didn't even thank me for taking her out... I didn't get a kiss on the cheek or a hug, nothing!  This is what American women are like... They are lazy and don't care about us (men), they just want us to do everything and ask for nothing in return. So I'm now committed to going overseas to find a woman once I get my financial ducks in a row. I guess I better start researching and doing homework to decide where I want to go and start learning the language in the meantime. I just want to know what its like to be loved by a feminine,beautiful, sweet,and humble woman. I want a woman who brings out my masculine protective instincts. American women cannot offer any of these things...  And the only feelings I feel for them are hatred and contempt. Frankly I have an overwhelming urge to backhand American women when they are in my presence. Therefore I am going the foreign route.
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fschmidt
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Glad to hear this.  Let me know if I can help in any way.  Or you can wait for my "Love Over Borders" app that I am developing here:

http://international-dating.63364.x6.nabble.com/
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Moralmoe91
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Thanks,
I am wondering where I should go. I am especially attracted to Eastern European women but as far as I can tell feminism is gaining lots of traction in that area. What do you think? Is Eastern Europe still a good place to find women?
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Humanity
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Congrats on giving up on AW. If you want to pursue teaching English abroad as a way to get out of the West, feel free to ask me. May I ask do you have any abilities with foreign languages or prior travel experience?
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Moralmoe91
I took a semester of French in High School, but I don't remember much tbh. And sadly no.. I haven't been out of the States yet. How would I go about becoming an "English as a second language"teacher?  People always tell me I would be a good teacher so maybe that is the way to go for me.
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Humanity
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It's an easy field to get into; however, it's a difficult field to get into a good area that you really want to be in. First, decide where you are open to going. Asia has a massive job market for TEFL, and also some very horrible jobs. Next, build a resume. Ideally, you want a bachelor's degree, some teaching experience, and a TEFL certification. Then check out websites for jobs. Many jobs, you can apply and interview online via Skype and get job offers.
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Moralmoe91
I will need to find a culture where the women are more open and expressive because I struggle with interpreting non-verbal communication and all the games that women tend to play (I have aspergers). Would any culture/country be an improvement in these areas?
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Humanity
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I don't yet have experience with this, but I think Latin cultures would help you the most there. Latin women are supposed to be much more outwardly emotional and expressive so you wouldn't have to worry about not knowing what's going on. Also, the Philippines, which I have been to, is a good place for anyone. The women are very kind and understanding, and something like asperger's will not count against you there.

I live in China currently and emotions tend to go unexpressed, and as far as I know many of these East-Asian cultures are that way.
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Moralmoe91
Last night I decided to message a foreign woman on plentyoffish to see what kind of response I would get. I picked a beautiful young woman from the Czech Republic and messaged her. She messaged me back and thanked me for my sweet message but told me she wasn't interested in me. She was nice and gave me a straight answer, I never get that with American Womyn. I'm finding out that foreign women are better right off the bat.
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fschmidt
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Moralmoe91 wrote
I am wondering where I should go. I am especially attracted to Eastern European women but as far as I can tell feminism is gaining lots of traction in that area. What do you think? Is Eastern Europe still a good place to find women?
I don't know about Eastern Europe.  But here is something I just saw that you can try:

http://www.happierabroad.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=22965
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ElReyB0lud0
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That you've had enough of biker tattoos, middle fingers in the air, and angry obese cat-ladies is no surprise. Me, too, believe me. That said, might I offer a constructive counterpoint?

It seems like you are very much caught up in finding someone who is "submissive", to the point of being docile like a child or pet. If I misunderstand, then, I apologize sincerely. However, if I'm not too far off the mark, I have to say that this attitude toward women is just the opposite side of the radfems' coin. It's not balanced.

If you take a more moderate approach to women, respecting their intelligence and human dignity, yet remain determined to land one whose goals are family-related, you'll be much more likely to find a loving and faithful wife who isn't insane. One with a religious, spiritual or ethnic life could be a real plus for an old-school suitor.

Those hyper-submissive types are mostly a myth; and the ones who are like that, are so because of psychiatric problems, bad upbringings and the like. Aim for one who respects you as an equal and wants to be by your side, not shrinking behind you.

The wilting violets are not much healthier inside than the Critical Studies grads with green mohawks are. Moderate people with healthy self-respect levels are the way to go.
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Moralmoe91
^Thats what I want. I want a woman who will meet me halfway... American women are lazy and selfish. For example they will never call you, you have to call them... I am not interested in doing all the work.. I want a woman who actually makes an effort to spend time with me.
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Cornfed
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ElReyB0lud0 wrote
Aim for one who respects you as an equal and wants to be by your side
Say what? No female is my equal.
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ElReyB0lud0
So be it; that's where we part ways. Such is life.
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Cornfed
You must have very low self esteem to regard entities with one sixth of your grey matter as you equals. It would be like regarding dogs as your equals. Besides, females are hypergamous and don't want men who are their equals.