J. Donner, I find this comment insulting. I was incel in America. I don't attribute this to not loving myself. I attribute this to the fact that the vast majority of American women are hostile bitches.
No need to leave the group, and you are allowed your opinion. But I will also express my opinion. So my question to you is, do you really think that Drealm, Ardia, and I aren't/weren't successful with American women because we fail to love ourselves?
It's a cesspool for hopeless men. That's the main reason I left. Identifying a problem and trying to understand it is one thing, but endlessly wallowing does a lot of harm, and those men may forever be stuck doing just that.