I have always wondered why women were so preoccupied with that Godforsaken word and concept. Confidence is just an empty word to me. As far as I can tell modern women view evil sociopathic men as the epitome as confidence. They aren't meaning that they want a man who has a healthy self esteem, they want a fullblown narcissist. People always tell me that I cant get women because I'm not confident and I used to believe it. However after meditating on it I have come to realize that I am confident after all. I view myself as a reasonably good looking,funny,and intelligent man. I don't have a problem with self confidence, my problem is with women and their behavior. The fact of the matter is modern American women do not behave in natural/normal ways and thus a man like myself will not feel confident/comfortable when interacting with them. I came to realize that I can interact with a woman,who acts like a woman should, just fine. When a woman is sweet, humble,and feminine it brings out a man's positive masculine nature and he feels confident and comfortable in his male role. But if a man is interacting with a modern bitchy woman who enjoys emasculating and criticizing men he will not feel confident. Telling a man to be confident is putting all the responsibility on him and excusing women of their bad behavior. In any interaction there are atleast two parties involved and it requires the participation of all the parties or the interaction wont be successful. Men have their role to play and women have their role to play... But if women aren't playing their role in the dynamic how are men supposed to play theirs? Thanks to feminism natural male/female dynamics are shot to hell. Modern American women are lazy and do not do their part to inspire confidence in men they are attracted to. This is just another example of how messed up American culture is. Men don't need to "man up" and be confident. They need to get the hell out of the femisphere and meet women who are feminine and inspire positive masculinity in their men.
Yes exactly... And the fact is a normal man can't be confident with women if they always tear you down and enjoy spitting in your face and disrespecting you. If I am confident in every other situation except interacting with women self confidence is not my problem, women's behavior is the problem. I have confidence in myself but not in women's ability to be reasonable.
Modern women seek out those dark traits like arrogance, sociopathy/psychopathy, being an asshole, being a loudmouth, etc. I think of it in terms of there being a counterfeit trait for every good trait a man could have. Arrogance is the counterfeit of confidence. Being a sociopath is the counterfeit of being an empath/being trustworthy and moral. And of course the logical conclusion to this messed up breeding game in the West is that society ends up being a den of sociopaths which of course will not hold together fortunately. It's already largely like that.