(Warning...I realize this is bitch to brag
This is an important question for me.
Firstly, fschmidt (and advanced and incels) in general - have had no luck in the femisphere. In a direct sense, no woman wanted them.
Im not sure about advanced, but Ive found that very strange in fschmidt's case.
Theory A: Femisphere women dislike intelligence etc etc - Outcome A: fschmidt is screwed.
Theory B: Femisphere women (and women in general) go for looks - Outcome B: advanced and ardia is screwed.
Me in particular because I automatically loses 3.5-5 points for being shorter than the girl.
Also Im smart.
Ergo - I should be screwed, period.
But two (good looking, taller) femisphere women have shown interest in me. Perhaps more. And this over a time adjusted period of, say, 2-3 years.
This leaves me with a strange question: Why?
Answer: No clue.
This leads to another possibility: Women go for looks, but some of them don't care that much about height (being taller).
Or another: Some femisphere women care about things like intelligence or whatever I have and are judging (subconsciously) on that criteria - but in a *positive* way.
But a more practical question is: Given that you have no idea why a woman wants you, but she does - do you trust her opinion - do you consider her self aware?
I do not mean self aware in as to why she "choose" me. But rather self aware as in she should know, at least subconsciously(?), not to pay attention to a taller man or other men, or to not lose respect for me if other people make fun of me (especially in front of her).
Or, perhaps, should I be thinking along the lines of, if she sends me clear IOIs, she already has empathy for me and that overrides other things (other men)?
(Of course if I had approached her and spend time with her I would know one way or the other, but Im "loveshy". The idea of her ignoring me/losing respect for me/others making fun/pseudobullying me/(even me having to act more submissive)/etc etc is way too much. Almost a physical pain. I avoided the whole issue, or, just as painful, auto-friendzoned myself).
So Im just asking for opinions.
Also, this goes quite to the heart of the whole CoAlpha thing - the very idea behind it is women need to be controlled. And that makes sense from a life experience of women rejecting you. But does it make sense in my case? Sure, it sounds great, and male bullying is reduced so its still very useful - but its not fundamental as when in the case of women rejecting you period, is it?