Study show Chinese women can't orgasm unless partner is rich.

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Chinese society on the whole is obsessed with money and greed in general. Their whole society revolves around money more so than other Asian societies. Also, they place a strong emphasis on losing and gaining face. Vietnam is also being pushed into that direction, so China and Vietnam are similar. The difference is that Vietnam is also a Southeast Asian country so there are more scammers and unscrupulous people in general.

In comparison, Korean society revolves around looks and physical beauty. Plastic surgery is rife and common place and there are not many natural Korean beauties. On top of that, their culture places a strong emphasis on 'bloodline purity' when it comes to marriage and having children.

I'm not so sure about what Japanese society revolves around these days because there isn't much of a clear picture about it.

I am still considering what kind of culture would be ideal.
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Spenta, do you think the obsession with money in China is recent or ancient? I suspect it is nothing new, although perhaps inflamed by the destruction of religion in China under communism. I am still trying to figure China out as far as where the best places to go are, and where the most suitable women are. I have a lot more ideas now than when I was still living there, but I haven't nearly got it figured out. Christianity is growing there, but I sure hope that it isn't churchianity like in the West. I've been to one church service while I was in China and it largely seemed hokey and similar to a churchian service.

East Asia might be one of the last places left to run, but it sure can be a pain as well.
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China has this culture especially in rural and even in urban areas that the man is supposed to support not only his spouse, but her entire extended family. Not unlike southeast Asian women if I had to draw a comparison. This really aggravates me to no end, which is why I do not want to consider a Chinese spouse. China, is a third world country that pretends to be a first world country, except for economically prosperous regions such as the Yangtze Delta (which has always been the cash cow of the Chinese economy). It is hard meeting Japanese women in Japan (because of the high emphasis on work culture), but there are some single Japanese women who travel outside of Japan looking for spouses or potential husbands. All the stories that Japanese women seem to be sluts come from the western men who only attract sluts and not the more conservative, 'normal' types. The corporatist work culture of Japan is mind-numbing and soul-crushing if I had to describe it. Especially it is to the point that the average man and woman wants to start a family but there is no financial incentive to start one. Japan, like China still distinguishes between sluts and wives, but it's not noticeable at first glance. But the work culture tends to increase the slutification of wives.

All Asian women are obsessed with money, it's just that the Chinese take it to the next level. Many Chinese women are very superficial. You have to have a car, a house and a career in order to court one, as well as enough money to take care of her family (maybe even extended family). In that regard, Japanese women are more tolerant of such things.

Both Chinese and Japanese lack pride in their own people and culture. But Chinese have a false pride, they claim to be proud of being Chinese. There are many deep down inside want out of this and worship foreigners and foreign culture. This is how westernization and liberalization of China kicks in. Japan's traditional culture is disintegrating rapidly and much of the family structure is being crippled as the result of it. Japanese families are having to scrape barrels to get by these days.

Chinese people, and all Asian people for the matter need a new religion that strongly establishes moral values and the well-being of all. Christianity is being corrupted by the feel-good bullshit that seems to pervade much of modern Christendom.

I will not say much about Korea but it is in between China and Japan but they are more looks-focused and very superficial about it. Many Korean women, due to the lack of jobs become prostitutes overseas.

Edit: I would also like to add that all three of those cultures are not as coalpha as they used to.
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Again, I might add that anyone ever considering China is to forget about China. China is turning even more slutty and promiscuous than the rest of east Asia with each and every generation, even Japan and south Korea. For personal reasons, I do not want to deal with the idea of supporting my spouse's family and having to deal with tons of money worship and gaining/losing face through money and paying/not paying for meals. Western culture is now seeped into the Chinese psyche, feeding off of it.

The whole world is corrupt. There is no choice other than to retreat, accept or embrace the complete depravity that humanity is capable of. The other hope is if we live to see humans kill each other off.
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I got the impression when I lived there that China is being somewhat of a holdout. The city I lived in was conservative anyway. But then, it was a place where most of the women would never even dream of marrying a foreigner. I met one such woman like that in my entire year there. I feel like China is my last option, the only place that is big enough and ancient enough that it might remain a holdout on the whole against rotten cultural influence. As long as it resists democracy, I think it will to some extent. Democracies are always the worst. I still have Japan to check out, but will probably skip Korea. I think if one can find a good East-Asian wife, he could probably be happy, as an East-Asian will likely be a good mother and better with money. Although I do not want a tiger wife...
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I got the impression when I lived there that China is being somewhat of a holdout. The city I lived in was conservative anyway. But then, it was a place where most of the women would never even dream of marrying a foreigner. I met one such woman like that in my entire year there. I feel like China is my last option, the only place that is big enough and ancient enough that it might remain a holdout on the whole against rotten cultural influence. As long as it resists democracy, I think it will to some extent. Democracies are always the worst. I still have Japan to check out, but will probably skip Korea. I think if one can find a good East-Asian wife, he could probably be happy, as an East-Asian will likely be a good mother and better with money. Although I do not want a tiger wife...
Tiger wives have an impression of being very feminist and not quite into family values as traditionalist women. They embody the worst of western culture and eastern culture. Asian women are divided into normal and abnormal, similar to the distinction between wives and whores. A non-Asian man would be seen as a monger at first glance, which usually attracts more questionable, whore-like abnormal women while the decent normal women usually keep their distance. Although I hear of mongers claiming that they have a good time in Japan, many of them also complain of 'flaking' from local girls, in which it really isn't considered to be flaking at all. Even Chinese women are more receptive than Japanese women. In other words, the more decent women are repulsed by mongers or anyone who resembles a monger. The most these women can do is just give you their number to be polite, but refuse to do anything. So the mongers inevitably use their 'game' to get sluts or corrupted/degenerate women. For traditional marriages, the main introduction method is usually through mutual friends, family members or something similar to that. This provides some level of social cohesion, as marriages by default were seen as alliances to strengthen ties between two families. Traditional conservative women often always seek familial approval for relationships and marriage. If you want a decent Asian bride, make a few local Asian male friends and be a part of their social circle. The difference again between Chinese and Japanese women is not much, except a fair number of Chinese women demand that you support her family with your income. Chinese women have much higher standards than Japanese women when it comes to money. She would demand a career, a car, a house and most often a hefty bride price from what I hear. Unless if your family members are mostly Asian immigrants (who have not lost their ways) living under the same roof, I would not advise bringing any Asian wife to the USA or to any western country. Americanization happens fast or slow depending on the corruptibility of the wife, household structure, ethnicity of the groom, etc.
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Spenta, do you have any advice for a Westerner trying to find a good Chinese woman? I will likely return to China. I enjoyed being a teacher there, even though I lived in a city where the women wouldn't date foreigners. My simple plan was, if I return, to go South. I had Chinese coworkers tell me that the South is much easier for foreigners when it comes to dating. And I've noticed most men who find Chinese wives get them from the Southern parts of China.

I really hate having to suffer from what mongers that came before me did.