What's the point?

The way it looks, things are going to get worse economically. I've graduated and am now looking for a job, but the jobs I would be able to hold are either in service or academia. I can do some programming here and there, and am generally good with machinery, so if there is some sort of economic collapse, I think I'd do ok. By myself.

I wouldn't want a kid in this society. Even if I found a non-femisphere or whatever woman, I don't see the point of having children, only to have them grow up in catastrophically worse economic conditions. I wouldn't want them to have to grow up behind a barricade either. I feel like I've suffered greatly for being a person with my problems in this society and I wouldn't want to put other people through it.

Does anyone else feel this way? I mean, I like the idea of a co-alpha brotherhood and all, but I'd rather die out genetically than have my children suffer extremely in a messed up world.

Scorpius wrote

The way it looks, things are going to get worse economically. I've graduated and am now looking for a job, but the jobs I would be able to hold are either in service or academia. I can do some programming here and there, and am generally good with machinery, so if there is some sort of economic collapse, I think I'd do ok. By myself.

I wouldn't want a kid in this society. Even if I found a non-femisphere or whatever woman, I don't see the point of having children, only to have them grow up in catastrophically worse economic conditions. I wouldn't want them to have to grow up behind a barricade either. I feel like I've suffered greatly for being a person with my problems in this society and I wouldn't want to put other people through it.

Does anyone else feel this way? I mean, I like the idea of a co-alpha brotherhood and all, but I'd rather die out genetically than have my children suffer extremely in a messed up world.

My economic situation is sketchy. I'm not a college graduate and I don't work any trades. This leaves me in a very marginalized economic class. But I think between saving money, living at home, investing and eventually relocating to a cheaper area I may be able to survive, get a wife and produce at least one child. This would be several years away though.

To have or not have children depends on how may generations your life plan includes. You're witnessing the collapse of society. Your children will live in it's rubble. But perhaps your children's children (grandchildren) will experience a better society.

I think it comes down to a question of sacrifice. Are you willing to sacrifice for the future? And are your children willing to sacrifice for the future.

I feel similar to you. But not having children is a way to guarantee a worst future.

 

I don't think economics is the key to happiness.  If it was, American would be a very happy country, which it isn't.  I think community is more important than economics.  And that is the point of CoAlpha.  Just a small group of say 20 CoAlpha families living near each other could create a good environment for children, regardless of what happens to the world economy.

Yeah, but I don't want my kids living in squalor, either. And as I said above, I don't want them living behind a barricade, fearing for their lives because of uncontrolled roving gangs or some such.

I'm not sure if having children at all costs is a good idea for me. Maybe it'd be better for me to help others with their existing children in a co-alpha group or system when things crumble.

Scorpius wrote

The way it looks, things are going to get worse economically. I've graduated and am now looking for a job, but the jobs I would be able to hold are either in service or academia. I can do some programming here and there, and am generally good with machinery, so if there is some sort of economic collapse, I think I'd do ok. By myself.

I wouldn't want a kid in this society. Even if I found a non-femisphere or whatever woman, I don't see the point of having children, only to have them grow up in catastrophically worse economic conditions. I wouldn't want them to have to grow up behind a barricade either. I feel like I've suffered greatly for being a person with my problems in this society and I wouldn't want to put other people through it.

Does anyone else feel this way? I mean, I like the idea of a co-alpha brotherhood and all, but I'd rather die out genetically than have my children suffer extremely in a messed up world.

I have managed to get a job recently, which I'll be starting soon, but it's only temporary. This is after 8 months of being unemployed after graduation. My degree is fairly useless and I lack skills for the most part. I would've been on the street without living at home. My economic situation may never change too much. I'm trying to get up out of the hole, but I realize I may never truly be able to...I might not ever really be able to afford leaving the femisphere for finding a wife, much less start a family. It bothers me a ton, and even if I could in theory marry and have children now, I'm not nearly ready for that. A small community of CoAlphas would be ideal, if it could be arranged someday. For the time being, I'm just trying to build up a life, and just hope things will work out for me. But if worse came to worse, I think I would choose dying off genetically and never reproducing than to do so in such a precarious world that I cannot get a foothold in economically.