I think (2. 3. 5.) are our best options.
2. Number 2. sounds good because I could save more money. I can easily afford a trip right now as suggested in 1., but I'd be even better off if we postponed the trip to December. I'm guessing a round trip with all expenses in Mexico and San Diego will be around $1,000 - $2,000 for a week?
3. We could do 3. but it depends on what you're looking for. If we're just looking to meet as soon as possible, then this would be your best bet. You'd only meet myself and possibly Nostromos though. We also wouldn't be experiencing any foreign country or likely visit any hookers. I may be able to arrange a room in my father's house for your stay (very messy now).
5. Number 5. would be the best financially and head count wise. But postponing till a bigger event runs the risk of postponing indefinitely.
Of 2., 3. and 5., I'd prefer 5.. I prefer 5. because I'd probably only be able to meet once a year. I think it would be a waste to spend this one annual opportunity on just a small state side gathering.
How soon did you want to meet fschmidt? I get the impression that you feel we need to meet soon as a group or we'll lose momentum and suffer from internet stagnation?
The way I see it:
1. = Now / Drealm + fschmidt.
2. = 3 months / Drealm+ fschmidt + J. Donner + ?.
3. = Now / Drealm + fschmidt + Nostromos?
4. = Now / Drealm + fschmidt + ?.
5. = 3 months + / Drealm+ fschmidt + J. Donner + ?.